I couldn’t remember. Tried every one. Where are they? I would like to pass on these words. Why didn’t anyone teach me this?
When my husband died suddenly, my world crashed twice. You think grieving is hard and losing the one you love and it is the worst. Our accounts were managed by him and he had his own accounts, business systems, accounts payable with hidden passwords. I should have known. Do you? what I know is you should and it’s easy to post how much you love each other but you know the important stuff is knowing his Facebook password. I still don’t and it is his birthday 5 years later and I have to read and post on his “site”. Can’t even edit and we’re still married on there as we are in my heart. It took Facebook to tell me how much he loved me by his profile and background pics are us.
Know his words, passwords and when you like his profile pic really tell her or him. No love button can do that. You need two sets of hidden passwords and keys to the safe. One for you and your loved ones and the other because the banks even lock up everything especially lock boxes unless your name is on it. If your spouse is sued, you are sued unless every financial investment was in Tenants by Entirety – don’t need a lawyer for that thank you very much. For today, pass the words please.